By Rasework Mengesha
The seeds of self-destruction is often planted well before the risky endeavor begins
I am writing to dispute and disprove Ato Tadesse Kostres statement with Selam TV on 31 January. We live a time during which the concept of right and wrong has blurred. It appears that many people accept the philosophy of moral relativism, denying the existence of moral truths. As a result many base their beliefs on the ever-changing tide of popular opinion and thus have no enduring foundation upon which to build their lives. Bible says: “The look on their faces will be held against them”. They don’t even bother to hide them.
How horrible it will be for those people, because they have brought disaster on themselves. More often than not, people fall prey to the fascinating of opportunities created by them without realizing completely the consequences and costs that it involves- One could label this behavior as the dark side of ‘just do it’ approach. Given the choice between being the out-of-control victim, or the in-control abuser, some of these people grow up to prefer the role of the abuser.
As they become adults, they simply turn the relationship dynamic around and start acting out the”abuser” side of the relationship dynamic they have learned. By choosing to be the aggressor and abuser, they may get their first sense of taking control over their own destiny and not being at the mercy of others. That they hurt others in the process may go unregistered or only occur as a dim part of their awareness.
My first question, “Why Tadesse abuse other people or organization?” As a consequence, abuse is the normal condition of life for those people. Tadesse internalized a particular relationship dynamically with EPDRF, namely the complementary roles for some of these people grow up to prefer the role of the abuser. “Abuser”. That he hurt others in the process may go unregistered or only occur as a dim part of his awareness in accusing others for his self benefit from the counterpart. Shameful!!
This man, in his statements with Selam TV makes us risk being a targets of abuses to retaliation. His interview with TV Selam about our peaceful organization that causing unnecessary and complicated to disable the good relationships with the Ethiopian people both inside and outside Ethiopia.
He creates a tense situation for exiled Ethiopian. This looks to be a set of Tadesse that to be on good terms with the Woyane government at the expense of the junta . We have never abused our position as we are a peaceful supporter of the movement forum for dissent. More often than not, Tadesse fall prey to the fascinating of opportunities created by him without realizing the consequences and costs that it involves.Shameful!!!
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